Words

“…it takes a very long time saying anything in it, because we do not say anything in it, unless it is worth taking a long time to say, and to listen to.” - Treebeard

Words that are pronounced can’t be erased. They have release an energy that has taking shape in reality. You can do your best to rectify the wrong, but you cannot erase it.

Pronounced words are given the power to influence reality. So, it’s wise to take the time to choose them carefully.

“Think twice before you speak, because your words and influence will plant the seed of either success or failure in the mind of another.” – Napoleon Hill

Word with action will impose a stronger mark into reality. So, don’t just talk, act also.

Choose Happiness

Choose to be happy!

For a lot of people, this is impossible to them. Why some people are happy and others not?

A study found out that happiness is more strongly associated with the level of respect and admiration we receive from peers. UC Berkeley Cameron Anderson

Study participants who took time to “savour” ordinary events that they normally hurried through, or to think back on pleasant moments from their day, “showed significant increases in happiness and reduction in depression”, says psychologist Sonja Lyubomirsky.

Avoiding comparison could help you to stay happy. Comparing ourselves with others can be damaging to happiness and self-esteem. Focusing on our own personal achievement leads to greater satisfaction, according to Sonja Lyudomirsky.

Having meaningful goals could help you to be more happy. “People who strive for something significant are far happier than those who don’t have strong dreams or aspirations.” Say Ed Diener and Robert Biswas-Diener. “Happiness lies at the intersection between pleasure and meaning. Whether at work or at home, the goal is to engage in activities that are both personally significant and enjoyable.” Say Tal Ben-Shahar.

Fake smile can’t make you happier. But if you choose to see the positive in a situation and then smile about it, then you’ll be happier. A fake smile with negative emotion will never make you happier. Smile because you know good things will come for you.

Give away with purpose and you’ll be happier. Helping a neighbour, volunteering, or donating goods and services results in a “Helper’s high”, and you get more health benefits than you would from exercise or quitting smoking.” Say Researcher Stephen Post.

Present happy

Something that happened in the past can't be changed.

It's done you can't come back and modify it. The only thing you can change is how you look at it.

There's always a way to change how we see the past. We can't change the reality of it, but we can change how we look at it.

If you choose to change how you see your past, then you can change it. It’s all about you.

If you choose to cherish those moments, then they stay vivid in your mind. The more you bring back memories, the more vivid they remain in your brain. If you don’t bring them back, they’ll start to become blur and someday you’ll remember only some part of it.

Choose to remind yourself of the good moments. Bring back the good feeling of those moments. And you’ll bring it into your present. Happy memories brings the happy into the present.

Action

Action can become a very high mountain to climb for most people.

There are many people that just think they can’t do anything about it. So they wait to see what will happen.

It’s the same with most business. There are a lot of lookers and so little doers.

The ones who take actions are the only ones who can hope for success. Those who don’t do anything, always fails.

Yes, you can fail if you take actions. But you can also succeed! People who succeed are all doers.

Will you succeed?

Will you be among the few who do something?

Believe

What you believe will happen.

It’s that simple. What ever you do, what you believe in will always take the lead. Even if you try to get something different then what you believe, you’ll always end up with what you deeply believe.

You have the power to bring into your life anything. It’s all about you.

Miracle will never happen to people with doubt and fear.

Use this quotes to help you. “You know what? I can take my life to the next level if I simply bridge the gap through faith.”

How do we get over a belief when current reality seems so real? You’ve got to reject the current reality and go for the future you want, and you do that with faith.

The fundamental turning point is when you realize that everything you experience is in you, and you understand that, when you change you, it will appear that other people have changed. But they didn’t change at all. You changed and so your perception has changed.