Victim Mentality

The victim mentality isn’t going to help you. If anything, it’s going to make you feel bad, and keep you from growing or attracting miracles.

The victim mentality can be devastating in the life of the one who keep on using it.

The more you think like a victim, the more situations where you'll be a victim will you bring to you.

You’ll feel depress.

You’ll be reluctant in taking any action.

You’ll do your best to stay as still in your life in hope that nothing worst would happen. Staying still will not prevent you from bad things.

In many survival guides they present the benefit of staying on the move. They say that if you stay still without any second option, you’ll end up stuck into your “not safe anymore” situation.

There's hope. The first step is to realize that you have the victim mentality. Most victims will fight for their status of victim. They'll cherish it and talk about it as something that changes their life in an irreversible way.

We are in charge of what we think.

More wins...

Do you know the difference between someone who's winning a lot and someone who never win anything?

The one who wins a lot takes the time to acknowledge each of his winning. Everyone of them. The win are everywhere, when he gets a parking lot where he likes to park. When he get the last DVD available at the DVD shop. When he see an accident behind him, that could have included him. Win doesn't have to be money, they can be what ever you want.

You need to acknowledge them as they come. You'll find out that the more you celebrate your wins, the more you'll win. You'll end up believe that you are a lucky guy. And as you believe then shall you become.

The people that never win, are thinking they never win, but in reality they do. They just don't remember it because they didn't celebrate it. As they don't believe in their luck, then they see less and less wins. And in the end, they become unlucky.

I believe so much that I'm a lucky guy that I had influenced others in becoming winners. The first one I influenced is my wife. She was thinking that she could never win anything when I met her. She didn't realize that she was a lucky woman. And I did my best to show her how easy it was to become lucky. Now, she wins prize almost every week. The last one is a $25 gift card at the coffee shop Tim Horton. And that's only one prize. :)

Do you want to be lucky? Do you really want to be lucky? If you do, then start right now to celebrate everything you have. And you shall get more...