Most people think its ok to bash and whine about
anything. It’s not because a lot of people are doing it, that it’s a good
thing.
“It's easy to get negative because you get beat
down. You go through a few disappointments and it's easy to stay in that
negative frame of mind. Choosing to be positive and having a grateful attitude
is a whole cliche, but your attitude is going to determine how you're going to
live your life.”
- Joel Osteen
A lot of people
think that positive people are not living in reality. No one can deny the reality
of what happened, but everyone can choose how to respond to it.
Positivity is not
denying reality. It’s a way of thinking. It’s a way of filter what we take from
reality (we all filter reality to some point). It’s a conscious choice to be
positive.
“Positive anything is better than
negative nothing.”
- Elbert Hubbard
Being negative is
not easier. It seems easier because we’re used to be negative. But if we would
have had the chance to be more positive in our childhood, it would seems easier
to us as we become an adult.
“Once you replace negative thoughts
with positive ones, you'll start having positive results.”
- Willie Nelson
Even the most
negative people will talk about getting positive result. So, we all want
positive result however how positive we are.
What the negative
people don’t understand is that they work against themselves. Negative will
always work against the positive. If you want positive result, better be as
much positive as you can in order to get what you want.