The word you say, the way you say them and the image you have when you say them will have influence on reality. You have influence even if you think you don’t.
It’s always better to take some time to think before you speak.
"Think twice before you speak, because your words and influence will plant the seed of either success or failure in the mind of another."
- Napoleon Hill
What you say could break or build.
Even if you try to repair what has been broken. It will never get back to its origin state. When it’s broken, it’ can’t never ever return to what it was.
What you say has power. You have power to influence the world. The words you use will influence what others will think and do.
Most of the time, you don’t see the result of your influence. But it is still there. Even if you think that you don’t have any influence, you do. It’s not about your intention, it’s about what you sent out. With or without your intention, it will have influence.