You are your biggest obstacle to yourself.
There is no way for you to be more then you see yourself.
There is no way for you to be better then you see yourself.
If you don’t take the time to work on yourself, then you’ll stay at the level you are now.
“You’ll never get higher then how you see yourself.”
- John C. Maxwell
Before anything, you need to have the desire to better yourself.
Then, you have to accept that there’s work to do before you can hope to better yourself. At this point, most will give up. Most want to better themselves without putting any work. They want the magic pill.
And last, you have to accept to become better. You have to be able to see yourself better.
There’s so many people that are putting a lot of work and energy without believing that any of that will work out. And then, they get angry to see that they were right to think it would not work.
If you think it will not work, then it won’t.