Fail

This week-end, I was in an hospital for a Bariatric Surgery. I was sharing a room with someone. That person told me that it was very difficult for him to talk about the surgery. In some way, everyone who's taking that surgery see that as a failure. A big statement that we just couldn't take care of our feeding habits. Yes, it's a failure, like any other failure we have to understand from it and go on. 

Being stuck in feeling bad about a failure will bring even more failure. You have to let go and move on.

I found out that I was moving on with my life faster then he was. Even after the surgery, he was still feeling really bad about it. At that moment, I didn't had the right word to help him. Just hope that he will find his way to move on.

We all fail at one time or another. It's OK to fail, when you learn from it and move on. 

Keep walking toward the better world in front of you. Don't look back, you can't change the past.

Off line for 2 weeks

I'll be off line for 2 weeks.

Should be back around the end of September.

Take care.

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Doing good...

Doing the right thing or not...

If someone comes to you and ask for a product. You don't have that product, but you know where that customer could find it. What will you do? Will you say that you don't have that product and end the talk or will you tell that customer where he could find it? I know some will do the first and some the last.

The first answer is OK. You told the truth. But you could have done a little more to help that customer.

The second answer is better for the customer. You don't make the sale, but you did the right things. When you do the right things, it will come back to you.

In the end, the customer will remember you if you gave the second answer. This means that he will come back.That's what we want, for our customer to come back even if we didn't sell anything the first time.

Doing good will always come back go you.

Old dog...

Learn from the ones who have done it before your...

Old people can be a good source of working idea. But being old don't mean they have done what you want to do. Remember that there's much more people who don't build a business then the ones who do. Find someone who was successful and listen to what they have to say.

Respect the old people. Even the ones who haven't built a business still have some good tips for you. :)

It's all up to you to listen and learn what you need to learn. We only remember what we need at that moment. Even if you take notes, you still miss a lot of good stuff. And when you read those notes later, you'll find stuff that you miss. 

Dream...

There's nothing else I can say to this. :)

Well, this is not true. I do have something to say.

Dreams are made with our capacity to imagine what could be. Some of us have a lot of creativity and some don't have as much. It doesn't matter. Your dreams are for you. You should not share them with others, keep them to yourself. Talking about your dream with other can become dangerous. A lot of people will find so many reason against your dream that you'll end up giving them up. If you keep them to yourself, you can work on them with all your heart without others working against you directly.

Most people will find reason against you reaching your dream, it's not because they want to bring you down, they think that you should not take any risk. Because risk means danger. They also think that if you reach your dream, you'll show them that you're better then them. They don't want you to be better. They want you to stay at their level.

One more thing, a lot of people can't dream big dream. Just the idea of having success is hard for them, because they have lived so many failure. They see failure in everything they do. When they have a success, they don't celebrate, they get ready for the next failure.

It's OK to start small. Go on and dream a small dream that you think you can reach. :)

Positively positive!

Complaining about how hard your life is?

"If you are complaining about things in your life, you are on the complaining frequency, and you are not in a position to attract what you want. Get on to the frequency of good with your thoughts and words. Firstly you will feel good, and secondly you will be on the frequency of receiving more good."
- Rhonda Byrne

Focus on what you want, not on what you don't want. Creation goes where energy flows. If you spend energy on what you don't want, then you'll get more of it.

This concept is frustrating to all of us. We have been raised to complain about what we don't like. It's like the manifestation against police brutality in Montreal (every year). People manifesting against violence trowing rocks in the windows of business on the street because they want to get notice by the media. Violence to manifest against violence will bring more violence.

If you focus your energy and action on something that you don't want, you'll get more of it.

First thing you have to do is to start to use positive sentences. What ever you want, ask for it with a positive sentence. Then start to work on that positive idea so you'll get what you want.

Negative will bring more of what you don't like. Stay away from negativity.

Positively smile today!

Happy with stuff?

"Most of us experience financial pressure on an ongoing basis, and we fantasize that having more money would relieve that pressure. This is a grand cultural delusion.
Let me assure you that the more money you have, the more pressure you’re likely to feel.
The key is not the mere pursuit of wealth, but changing your beliefs and attitudes about it so you see it as a means for contribution, not the end-all and be-all for happiness."
— Anthony Robbins

Financial pressure, every one knows what it is. Those that don't, they're not using a computer.

We're living in a society that ask from us to be among the pack. To do so, we need to buy stuff, lots of stuff. But the stuff are not making us happier. Stuff is just stuff, there's no happiness into it. You can't buy happiness. You have to choose to be happy no matter what you have and don't have.

We're so stuck with this idea that stuff can make us happy that we teach it to our children. Creating a new generation of buyers. A new generation of unhappy people that will buy stuff.

I'm a fan of the movie "Fight Club". Not because of the violence, but because of the philosophy about stuff in it. That movie is a wake-up call that most of us didn't understood. Look further the violence and you'll see what I'm talking about. Our happiness should not depend on stuff.

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Do you have your "IT"?

Do you know what you want?

"When you know what you want, and you want it bad enough, you will find a way to get it." 

- Jim Rohn

Being vague is killing all the work you're putting into it. Make it clear and direct. State what you want in simple positive word. Negative will never work. 

When you know what you want, review it every day. Take 5 minutes to read it and remind yourself what it's all about. If it doesn't make you smile, then you should think about it a little more. It should make you smile as soon as you think about it.

"To be successful, you must really want something so bad that it becomes a part of you and motivates you urgently to achieve it." 

- Dexter Yager 

If you smile when you look at it, then you are on the right track. Keep working to make it happen.

Easy money!

There's no short cut to making it big in business!

"When is the big payoff?
It will occur way later than you ever expected.
It will require more effort than you ever knew you had.
It will happen because no one else stuck it out as long as you have. And because no one cared nearly as much as you.
When you refuse to ever quit. That’s when the big payoff happens."
- Mike Michalowicz

Easy money program promising your instant wealth are scam for you.

If you choose the way of the scam, you could end up with a lot of fast money. But you'll also build a large ball of negative energy from all the people you scammed. Yes, you can make lots of money with scam if your fast enough. But remember that most will be among the ones loosing money. Someday it will be you.

Scamer never get very far. One day or another their tricks get back to them.