If you don't enjoy what you are doing, then you should find something else to do.
I know, a lot of people think that it's OK to work on a job that you don't like, as long as they money is good and that it provide for your family.
But the reality is that you'll end up sick from doing what you don't enjoy.
Yes, you can have a few stuff that you don't like in your job and enjoy the rest. If so, then find a way to change what you don't like so you can enjoy more your job.
You can enjoy what you are doing. It's all up to you to search for a way to enjoy more or find something that you'll enjoy more. There's no good reason to stay in a job that you don't like.
There's no good reason to stay in a situation that you don't enjoy. This means, any situation.
One of the best way to change a situation that you don't like, is to change yourself. Change what you accept and what you don't. Start with simple stuff and grow to really enjoy your life to the fullest.
I found some good text about this...
30 ways to live life to fullest
How to enjoy life to the fullest
50 ways to live life to the fullest
Showing posts with label consistency. Show all posts
Showing posts with label consistency. Show all posts
Sunday, 7 July 2013
Friday, 5 July 2013
What do you really want????
We choose what we want to put our focus on. We choose where we're heading when put our energy in our focus.
"Most people don't realize how much passion they put into what they don't want. When you speak to a friend and you tell them all about an "awful" situation, you are putting passion into what you don't want. When you react to an event negatively, with the response that it is "terrible", you are putting passion into what you don't want. You are a beautiful passionate being, so make sure you direct your passion wisely."
- Rhonda Byrne
If you choose to focus on what you don't like, then you'll get more of what you don't like. This has nothing to do with a magic thinking, it's just the plain facts. Even if you don't want to see it, you'll get what you focus on.
You are in charge. No ones can choose for you.
If you complain all the time, you'll get more reason to complain.
What is it that you really want? And I mean, REALLY WANT!
Take the time to write it down. Yes, write it down Right Now!
You'll need to focus on what you want. If you haven't done this before, it could take you a long time to make it a habits. So, every evening before you go to sleep and every morning when you wake up, read what you just wrote. Try to see in your head what you want. Feel good about it. And then go on with your day. Keep doing this each day, and I mean EACH DAY for 30 days. After those 30 days, you should have created a habits of doing this. And if you stop for one day, then you have to start again your 30 days from the day one. You can't create a habit if you're not doing this.
And I don't mean that you'll get what you want in 30 days, what I mean is that you'll have the habits of starting your day and ending it with good though about what you want. Those good though will change your mind set and help you to focus on what you want. And then, when your focus will be what you really want, that's when you'll get it.
This is not easy. It needs a lot of work.
"Most people don't realize how much passion they put into what they don't want. When you speak to a friend and you tell them all about an "awful" situation, you are putting passion into what you don't want. When you react to an event negatively, with the response that it is "terrible", you are putting passion into what you don't want. You are a beautiful passionate being, so make sure you direct your passion wisely."
- Rhonda Byrne
If you choose to focus on what you don't like, then you'll get more of what you don't like. This has nothing to do with a magic thinking, it's just the plain facts. Even if you don't want to see it, you'll get what you focus on.
You are in charge. No ones can choose for you.
If you complain all the time, you'll get more reason to complain.
What is it that you really want? And I mean, REALLY WANT!
Take the time to write it down. Yes, write it down Right Now!
You'll need to focus on what you want. If you haven't done this before, it could take you a long time to make it a habits. So, every evening before you go to sleep and every morning when you wake up, read what you just wrote. Try to see in your head what you want. Feel good about it. And then go on with your day. Keep doing this each day, and I mean EACH DAY for 30 days. After those 30 days, you should have created a habits of doing this. And if you stop for one day, then you have to start again your 30 days from the day one. You can't create a habit if you're not doing this.
And I don't mean that you'll get what you want in 30 days, what I mean is that you'll have the habits of starting your day and ending it with good though about what you want. Those good though will change your mind set and help you to focus on what you want. And then, when your focus will be what you really want, that's when you'll get it.
This is not easy. It needs a lot of work.
Tuesday, 2 July 2013
Know something about TV?
Stuck to the TV...
When your free time is planned according to the TV. When you spend more time if front of the TV then working on your business. When you leave your friends because there's something that you want to see because you are following it on TV.
Then, TV is a problem for you. If you are serious about your business, you should cut the time you spend in front of the TV.
We all have the same amount of time when we start the day. Some will make millions with that time and others will a hundred for a days work. There's no difference when they started the day, they both had the same amount of time. Where's the difference then?
One of them choose to use the time at hand and make the most of it. And the other is wasting as much time as can be so the at work would feel shorter. One will have money work for him (her) and the other will work for money. One will use the TV to sell stuff and others will listen to TV and pay for that time in double.
You are free to spend your time as you want, but remember that when you look at documentaries of the rich and famous you don't see anyone stuck in front of the TV...
When your free time is planned according to the TV. When you spend more time if front of the TV then working on your business. When you leave your friends because there's something that you want to see because you are following it on TV.
Then, TV is a problem for you. If you are serious about your business, you should cut the time you spend in front of the TV.
We all have the same amount of time when we start the day. Some will make millions with that time and others will a hundred for a days work. There's no difference when they started the day, they both had the same amount of time. Where's the difference then?
One of them choose to use the time at hand and make the most of it. And the other is wasting as much time as can be so the at work would feel shorter. One will have money work for him (her) and the other will work for money. One will use the TV to sell stuff and others will listen to TV and pay for that time in double.
You are free to spend your time as you want, but remember that when you look at documentaries of the rich and famous you don't see anyone stuck in front of the TV...
Monday, 10 June 2013
Writers blank block
When you want to write, you need to set up some goals and habits to do the right things everyday. The top writer are doing it everyday. Most don't even take a day off. They write even if they don't feel like it.
The fear of the blank page. I do have it from time to time. I face my computer and nothing seams to come out. To fight this, I have a list of subject by my computer. I add new stuff as soon as I get idea on that list. Most of my post come from that list. Sometimes it's a quotes, other times it's a subject that I think I should talk about. My list is moving, because each time I use a subject I remove it from the list.
I also like to read others blog. There's a lot of good blog around the net. I just choose to read some of them that are inspiring me. And then, I write my own post about the same or near subject.
You can also find some good tips in those web sites...
Beat the blank page syndrome
Write to done
The Terror of the blank page
In reality, writing everyday is hard. And you should keep on fighting your blank page so you end up writing everyday. In the end, you'll write good stuff and some other not so good. It doesn't matter. The good stuff will always be what will stand out. And the not so good ones, will be left behind.
The fear of the blank page. I do have it from time to time. I face my computer and nothing seams to come out. To fight this, I have a list of subject by my computer. I add new stuff as soon as I get idea on that list. Most of my post come from that list. Sometimes it's a quotes, other times it's a subject that I think I should talk about. My list is moving, because each time I use a subject I remove it from the list.
I also like to read others blog. There's a lot of good blog around the net. I just choose to read some of them that are inspiring me. And then, I write my own post about the same or near subject.
You can also find some good tips in those web sites...
Beat the blank page syndrome
Write to done
The Terror of the blank page
In reality, writing everyday is hard. And you should keep on fighting your blank page so you end up writing everyday. In the end, you'll write good stuff and some other not so good. It doesn't matter. The good stuff will always be what will stand out. And the not so good ones, will be left behind.
Saturday, 8 June 2013
Habits
Do you know that we're creature of habits? We tend to do the same things the same way on and on.
If we have a bad habit, we'll keep on doing it even if we know it's bad. We'll create the reason to keep doing it. We even end up thinking our bad habits are good ones. And if we want to create a new good habits (or a bad one) we only need 27 days.
Yes, if we keep on doing it everyday for 27 days, it will become an habits.
How about creating a good habits? And how about removing a bad one?
If we have a bad habit, we'll keep on doing it even if we know it's bad. We'll create the reason to keep doing it. We even end up thinking our bad habits are good ones. And if we want to create a new good habits (or a bad one) we only need 27 days.
Yes, if we keep on doing it everyday for 27 days, it will become an habits.
How about creating a good habits? And how about removing a bad one?
Wednesday, 5 June 2013
Who are you?
Personal branding...
You need to brand yourself. It's so powerful that some people are recruiting with their branding only. Anything they promote will bring new referral because people trust them.
You can do this with a pic of you or anything that you like. But a pic of you smiling is the best tools to build a positive reputation.
In the end, it's all about reputation... When your reputation is established, you'll become a reference and people will join under you because of it.
Laws to build a good reputation:
- Promote all the time and everywhere. You need to bee out there so people will see that you are still active.
- Stick to the stuff you promote. There's nothing more damaging then a jumping promoter. If you promote SFI, then keep promoting it. The longer you'll promote it, the better your brand will be associated with it.
- Create new splash about what you are already promoting. This is a way to entertain people and build your brand.
- Make things interesting. Don't hesitate to promote yourself before the program you're in. Create an interesting brand.
- Don't follow others. Do your best to brand yourself with something out of the ordinary.
You need to brand yourself. It's so powerful that some people are recruiting with their branding only. Anything they promote will bring new referral because people trust them.
You can do this with a pic of you or anything that you like. But a pic of you smiling is the best tools to build a positive reputation.
In the end, it's all about reputation... When your reputation is established, you'll become a reference and people will join under you because of it.
Laws to build a good reputation:
- Promote all the time and everywhere. You need to bee out there so people will see that you are still active.
- Stick to the stuff you promote. There's nothing more damaging then a jumping promoter. If you promote SFI, then keep promoting it. The longer you'll promote it, the better your brand will be associated with it.
- Create new splash about what you are already promoting. This is a way to entertain people and build your brand.
- Make things interesting. Don't hesitate to promote yourself before the program you're in. Create an interesting brand.
- Don't follow others. Do your best to brand yourself with something out of the ordinary.
Friday, 10 May 2013
Do you Commit?
Commitment
Let's be serious for a moment. Are you serious? Really, when you say something, are you doing it?
I'm a role player. I like the old style with books and dices. In one of those games I play a magic user. And the first rules of that organization is you have to keep your promises. No way out, you have to put your life on jeopardy to get it done. Are you ready to put your life on the mat for what you say?
I read a post from Tom Wacker "Say what you mean", and I like that post. Go read it.
Be someone to trust and you'll find people that you can trust. Be someone of your word and you'll meet people that are keeping their word. Be what you want to find in others.
This my 10th day of post for this month.
Let's be serious for a moment. Are you serious? Really, when you say something, are you doing it?
I'm a role player. I like the old style with books and dices. In one of those games I play a magic user. And the first rules of that organization is you have to keep your promises. No way out, you have to put your life on jeopardy to get it done. Are you ready to put your life on the mat for what you say?
I read a post from Tom Wacker "Say what you mean", and I like that post. Go read it.
Be someone to trust and you'll find people that you can trust. Be someone of your word and you'll meet people that are keeping their word. Be what you want to find in others.
This my 10th day of post for this month.
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